Skip to content ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ rarely collapses all at once. It ๐๐๐๐๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ, ๐ช๐ฎ๐ข๐๐ญ ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ๐ฌ.
It fades when feedback is postponed until review time.
When one-on-ones turn into status updates instead of conversations.
When effort goes unrecognized because โthey know I appreciate them.โ
๐๐จ ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ญ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ ๐. People just stop trying as hard when it feels like no one notices or nothing changes.
Gallup research shows that ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐จ๐๐ญ๐๐ง ๐๐๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฑ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐ก๐ฌ ๐จ๐ ๐๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฒ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ (Gallup, ๐๐ฉ๐ ๐น๐๐๐ ๐ก 6 ๐๐๐๐ก๐ฉ๐ ๐ด๐๐ ๐ถ๐๐๐ก๐๐๐๐ ๐ก๐ ๐ฟ๐๐๐-๐๐๐๐ ๐ธ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ก, 2018). Those early
moments set the tone for whether people feel connected, valued, and seen, or whether they begin to pull back.
๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ๐๐๐ฒ ๐๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ฌ
๐๐๐ฒ ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฆ ๐ฅ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ, ๐ฅ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ฏ๐จ๐๐๐ฅ, ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฅ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐๐๐๐ฌ.
๐๐ฌ๐ค ๐๐ข๐ซ๐๐๐ญ ๐ช๐ฎ๐๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฆ๐๐ค๐๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐โ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค ๐๐๐๐ฅ ๐ฆ๐๐๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ฅ ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ก๐๐ฌ ๐๐๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐๐ซ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ .
๐ ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก ๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐โ๐ฌ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ค ๐ฆ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ซ๐๐.
๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ๐งโ๐ญ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ข๐ง ๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ง๐ญ , ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ก๐๐ฌ ๐ก๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐๐ . ๐๐ญโ๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก ๐ง๐๐ ๐ฅ๐๐๐ญ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ง๐๐. ๐๐ก๐๐ง ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐๐ ๐๐ซ๐ฌ ๐๐ก๐จ๐จ๐ฌ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ซ๐ฅ๐ฒ, ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฒ ๐จ๐๐ญ๐๐ง ๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐๐งโ๐ญ ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐๐ง ๐ฎ๐ฉ. ๐๐ก๐๐ฒโ๐ฏ๐ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐๐๐ง ๐ฐ๐๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฆ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ซ๐ฌ.
๐๐ก๐๐ญโ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ ๐ง๐๐ฅ ๐จ๐ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ๐ฏ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐๐ซ๐ง๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ญ ๐๐๐๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ซ๐๐๐๐ฌ?
